Relationships - Loneliness

November 11, 2011

Interview with John Cacioppo, author of the book Loneliness: Human Nature and the Need for Social Connection

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Mike Carruthers:
Loneliness is a big, often understood problem.

John Cacioppo:
We misunderstand as a culture what loneliness is - we have conceptualized it as a personality kind of weakness (perhaps neuroticism, perhaps depression) - and a research study suggested it's not any of those.
 

February 15, 2011

Interview with Dr. Pat Love, author of the bookNever Be Lonely Again: The Way Out of Emptiness, Isolation, and a Life Unfulfilled

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Mike Carruthers:
Loneliness has been called an epidemic but fortunately there is a cure.

Dr. Pat Love:
You know there are only 3 things we have to do to have a deep connection: show up, tune in, and remember. 

February 14, 2011

Interview with Dr. Pat Love, author of the bookNever Be Lonely Again: The Way Out of Emptiness, Isolation, and a Life Unfulfilled

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Mike Carruthers:
Loneliness is a pretty common feeling.

Dr. Pat Love:
United States ranks in the top quarter of nations throughout the world that have the highest incidences of loneliness. One study reported 60 million Americans suffer from loneliness.
 

September 7, 2009

Interview with Melinda Blau author of Consequential Strangers: The Power of People Who Don't Seem to Matter. . . But Really Do

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Mike Carruthers:
Sure you have friends but you also have other important people in your life – just not AS important. They are "consequential strangers."

Let me give you an example; you have a mechanic and you don’t think much about him until your car breaks down but having that mechanic is a very, very important part of your life.

 August 21, 2009

Interview with Debra Fine, author of The Fine Art of Small Talk
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Mike Carruthers:
Chit-chat, small talk - whatever you call it, it is important.

Debra Fine:
Anybody listening who thinks about a romantic relationship they're in and/or a business friendship - it either started with small talk and then developed into something more connected or it started with something heavy-duty and then because of small talk, the friendship was developed.

July 9, 2009

Interview with Mardi Horowitz, M.D., author of A Course in Happiness   
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Mike Carruthers:
The world is full of people who are unhappy, and it turns out there are two things that tend to produce discontent for these people.

Mardi Horowitz, M.D.:
What I call the "toxic twins" that tend to produce discontent are blaming and entitlement. That is people who feel too entitled and then blame everybody else or something else for what happens bad to them.