Something You Should Know about Parenting

Respecting Your Children

September 24, 2014


Interview with Jay Scott Fitter, author of the book Respect Your Children: A Practical Guide To Effective Parenting




Mike Carruthers:
As a parent your children are very important but do you respect your children?


Jay Scott Fitter:
I would say the vast majority of parents don’t respect their children. I think that they respect their children’s friends more than they do their children.

Jay Scott Fitter

The 4 "C's" Of Being A Good Father

September 8, 2014


Interview with Dr. George Cave, author of the book Just Be A Dad: Things My Father Never Told Me




Mike Carruthers:
In order to be a good father and have a positive influence on your children.


Dr. George Cave:
The first thing is always to show that you care for the child and this is done by showing that you care and love for the child’s mother.  That relationship between the husband and wife is paramount to the psychological wellbeing of the children.

George Cave PhD


September 1, 2014


Interview with Dr. Michael Thompson, author of the book Best Friends, Worst Enemies: Understanding the Social Lives of Children




Mike Carruthers:
Childhood friendships can be the most important ones.



Michael Thompson, Ph.D:
You know friendship in childhood is a better predictor of adult mental health than grades or IQ.

Dr. Michael Thompson

Raising Self-Reliant Kids

August 22, 2014


Interview with Elisa Medhus, author of the book Raising Everyday Heroes: Parenting Children To Be Self-Reliant




Mike Carruthers:
Many parents today do so much for their kids that their kids don't really learn how to live life.


Elisa Medhus :
I think that it comes from all our best intentions. We come from being parented by autocratic family models where the dad was a dictator and it was like you do as you're told or else.

Elisa Medhus

Back To School

August 18, 2014


Interview with Ron Clark, author of the book The Excellent 11: Qualities Teachers and Parents Use to Motivate, Inspire, and Educate Children




Mike Carruthers:
This fall a lot of kids dread going back to school because of a problem that seems to be getting worse and worse.


Ron Clark:
We are losing so many kids in America because they're being bullied they're being picked on; they don't want to go to school. The school environment is not a positive place for a lot of kids.

Ron Clark

Better Parenting

July 29, 2014


Interview with Dr. Laurence Steinberg, author of the book The Ten Basic Principles of Good Parenting




Mike Carruthers:
Can you love your child too much?


Dr. Laurence Steinberg:
I think a lot of parents believe that they can spoil a child by being too loving. Research studies indicate that you can't be too loving to a child. You can spoil a child with material possessions but you can't spoil a child with genuine affection.

Dr. Laurence Steinberg

Why Kids Get Fat

June 12, 2014


Interview with Dr. Patricia Ronald Riba, author of the book Fit Kids Revolution: The Parent's Diet-Free Guide to Raising Healthy & Fit Children




Mike Carruthers:
One reason so many kids are overweight is because their parents let them eat whatever they want.


Dr. Patricia Ronald Riba:
I get so many parents and they’re like he’ll eat too much, he eats too much.  And I say, “Yeah if it’s cheese puffs and pizza of course but I’ve never had a kid come in with a stomach ache from eating too many brussels sprouts or carrots or apples.”

Dr. Patricia Ronald Riba

Coping With Allergies

May 14, 2014


Interview with Dr. Keri Peterson, Spokesperson for Clorox




Mike Carruthers:
More and more people are suffering from allergies we’re up to 36 million Americans.


Dr. Keri Peterson:
If you have a parent with allergies, 1 parent gives you a 33% chance of having allergies. And if you have 2 parents that have allergies you have a 67% chance and they can develop at any age.

Dr. Keri Peterson

Mothers & Sons

May 12, 2014


Interview with Dr. Meg Meeker, author of the book Strong Mothers, Strong Sons: Lessons Mothers Need to Raise Extraordinary Men




Mike Carruthers:
For mothers raising a son is different than raising a daughter.


Dr. Meg Meeker:
During the first 10 years boys need a lot of security to come from their mothers - they need a lot of time, they need affection, they need bonding.

Dr. Meg Meeker

Are Today's Kids Spoiled?

May 5, 2014


Interview with Alfie Kohn, author of the book The Myth of the Spoiled Child: Challenging the Conventional Wisdom about Children and Parenting




Mike Carruthers:
Parents today are often accused of being too permissive and over-protective.


Alfie Kohn:
That’s what they were saying in 1911, it’s what they were saying in 1952, it always seems to be getting worse. And worse is almost always defined in terms of kids getting away with too much and parents letting them.

Alfie Kohn

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