Something You Should Know about Human Behavior

Benefits Of Being Cheap

October 8, 2015


Interview with Jeff Yeager, author of the book The Cheapskate Next Door: The Surprising Secrets of Americans Living Happily Below Their Means




Mike Carruthers:
People who spend less than they earn and live beneath their means report a higher level of personal happiness. And in fact they often say…


Jeff Yeager:
Sure we could afford to spend more but why would we? It wouldn’t make us any happier.

Jeff Yeager

Sabotaging Your Success

October 1, 2015


Interview with Tim Schurr, author of the book Get Out Of Your Way: How to Eliminate Self-Sabotage and Win Your Life!




Mike Carruthers:
When you’re focused on your problems it’s hard to work on the solutions so you need to change the focus.


Tim Schurr:
This is not about just being a positive thinker this is about emotionally reprogramming yourself – getting yourself focused on how you want your future to be.

Tim Schurr

Living In The Present

September 29, 2015


Interview with Donald Altman, author of the book The Mindfulness Code: Keys for Overcoming Stress, Anxiety, Fear, and Unhappiness




Mike Carruthers:
In the last few moments have you been focused on the present or have you been worrying about what’s going to happen in the future?


Donald Altman:
If you’re too forward focused, and if that’s causing you anxiety and not allowing you to be present - then maybe you’re not really with the people that you’re with in that moment.

Donald Altman

Beating Procrastination

September 28, 2015


Interview with Renate Reimann, author of the book Beyond Procrastination: How to Stop Postponing Your Life




Mike Carruthers:
We all procrastinate from time to time, why?


Renate Reimann:
Very often it’s very legitimate we don’t have the time or the resources or we’re not clear on what the next step is. But at other times it’s just fear holding us back.


Renate Reimann

The Illusion Of Attention

September 25, 2015


Interview with Daniel Simons, author of the book The Invisible Gorilla: And Other Ways Our Intuitions Deceive Us




Mike Carruthers:
The human brain is an incredible machine but it does have some interesting flaws.


Daniel Simons:
We don't notice as much as we think we do, we don’t remember as vividly as we think we do. We tend to place too much value in our confidence in general. We spot causes where they don’t exist.

Daniel Simons

Giving Back To The World

September 23, 2015


Interview with Paul Shoemaker, author of the book Can't Not Do: The Compelling Social Drive that Changes Our World




Mike Carruthers:
I bet you’ve had a can’t not do moment. It’s when you see someone or some animal or some group in need of your help and you simply can’t not do it.


Paul Shoemaker:
There are absolutely moments in each of our lives where we hit that moment where something really affects us or makes us look at something with our heart and head.

Paul Shoemaker

The Silo Effect

September 15, 2015


Interview with Gillian Tett, author of the book The Silo Effect: The Peril of Expertise and the Promise of Breaking Down Barriers




Mike Carruthers:
There’s something in our personal and our professional culture today called the silo effect.


Gillian Tett:
Today’s bureaucracies are often so fragmented that the right hand doesn’t know what the left hand is doing. The fundamental problem that comes from that is that bright people do really, really dumb things.

Gillian Tett

Embracing Optimism

September 14, 2015


Interview with Bert Jacobs, co-author of the book Life is Good: The Book




Mike Carruthers:
There’s a lot to said for being optimistic.


Bert Jacobs:
Because it’s not a soft philosophy it’s a pragmatic strategy for approaching life and living a happy and fulfilling life.


Bert Jacobs

When You "Click" With Someone

September 10, 2015


Interview with Ori Brafman, co-author of the book Click: The Magic of Instant Connections




Mike Carruthers:
You’ve most likely had the experience of meeting someone for the first time personally or professionally and you just hit it off, you click.


Ori Brafman:
It turns out that the relationships that ensue from those kinds of connections are categorically different – mainly they’re more passionate.

Ori Brafman

The Real Reason People Go To Work - Part 2

September 2, 2015


Interview with Barry Schwartz, author of the book Why We Work (TED Books)




Mike Carruthers:
You’ve probably heard that a majority of working people don’t actually like their job. Which is a shame because…


Barry Schwartz:
We spend half our waking lives at work. And it’s an incredible waste of a human resource for people to spend half of their lives in places they don’t want to be doing things they don’t want to do - especially when it’s not necessary.

Barry Schwartz

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