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Competition

March 4, 2013

 

Interview with Ashley Merryman, co-author of the book Top Dog: The Science of Winning and Losing

 

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Mike Carruthers:
Men are more competitive than women - that’s a common belief but it’s not exactly true.

 

Ashley Merryman:
What we’ve found in the research is that it’s not that men and women compete differently once they’re in the competition – a woman will fight just as hard for a job as a guy.
 


Ashley Merryman

How To Live A Great Life

February 4, 2013

 

Interview with Judith Wright, author of the book Transformed!: The Science of Spectacular Living

 

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Mike Carruthers:
Ever feel like something is missing in your life?

 

Judith Wright:
Well I think all of us feel like some unfulfilled potential on us, some kind of nagging something, it’s something that feels like almost like an itch we’re not scratching.
 


Judith Wright

Habits Of Wealthy People Part 2

January 3, 2013

 

Interview with Thomas Corley, CPA, author of the book Rich Habits - The Daily Success Habits of Wealthy Individuals

 

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Mike Carruthers:
For the most part it’s assumed that wealthy people got that way because they inherited their money - but apparently that’s not true.

 

Thomas Corley, CPA:
85% of wealthy children never inherit a dime. We don’t have wealth class because 85% of the wealth comes and goes in 1 generation.
 


Thomas Corley CPA

Overcoming Obstacles To Reach Your Goals

November 20, 2012

 

Interview with Marc Allen, author of the book The Magical Path: Creating the Life of Your Dreams and a World That Works for All

 

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Mike Carruthers:
While there may be many paths to finding success many people agree that…

 

Marc Allen:
The simple basic process is to clearly define what success is for you - without giving in to the doubts and fears that threaten to overwhelm all of us as soon as we make a clear goal.
 


Marc Allen

The Power Of Being Trustworthy - Part 2

November 14, 2012

 

Interview with David Horsager, author of the book The Trust Edge: How Top Leaders Gain Faster Results, Deeper Relationships, and a Stronger Bottom Line

 

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Mike Carruthers:
Do you know people who make commitments and then flake out?

 

David Horsager:
Many, many, many people are making commitments, I think, without counting the costs, without thinking about really am I really going to stick with this? Or I’m just going to say it it’s so easy to say.
 


David Horsager

The Power Of Being Trustworthy

November 13, 2012

 

Interview with David Horsager, author of the book The Trust Edge: How Top Leaders Gain Faster Results, Deeper Relationships, and a Stronger Bottom Line

 

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Mike Carruthers:
Whether it’s business or personal relationships trust is huge.

 

David Horsager:
I define trust as a confident belief in so if I confidently believe in you costs go down, skepticism goes down, everything changes.
 


David Horsager

Achieving Your Dream

September 28, 2012

 

Interview with Mike Dooley, author of the book Infinite Possibilities: The Art of Living Your Dreams

 

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Mike Carruthers:
Sometimes when life gets tough it can be difficult to remain optimistic. And if you’ve ever felt that way, consider this…

 

Mike Dooley:
We’re more likely to laugh than to cry, to have money than to be flat broke, and we are therefore far more likely to succeed than to fail.
 


Mike Dooley

Mike Dooley, author of the book Infinite Possibilities, says what we think about and believe in is exactly what we’re likely to create for ourselves.

 

So that it doesn’t sound too "hocus-pocus," to give you the mechanics, I boil it down to those three words; thoughts become things, being it, it’s the end all and be all to living the life of your dreams or creating deliberate change in your life. And if that sounds hocus-pocus then just turn it into positive thinking.

 

Because you are much more likely to achieve a goal or dream if you truly believe you can and can visualize yourself doing it.

 

Why is it that every athlete on planet earth has done this as long as time has been recorded? And it’s because those people whose entire life hinges on their performance use every possible tool and this is a time proven tool.

 

Setbacks will always happen and Mike says you can either let them stop you or you can keep moving ahead.

 

Whatever you want - the first step is imagine it in your mind. Secondly speak about it as if you were on your way. And third prepare the way physically - then move in that direction.
 

  
 

How To Connect With New People

September 21, 2012

 

Interview with Jill Spiegel, author of the book Jill Spiegel's How To Talk To Anyone About Anything!

 

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Mike Carruthers:
Are you one of those people who has trouble mingling at parties - maybe because you’re just not good at small talk?

 

Jill Spiegel:
First of all there’s no such thing as small talk even when you start conversations with, “What a beautiful day.” Or a compliment like, “I love your tie.” You give people a psychological and emotional lift that makes them want to talk to you.
 


Jill Spiegel

Hoping Against Hope

August 20, 2012

 

Interview with Karen Krett, author of the book The Dark Side of Hope: A Psychological Investigation and Cultural Commentary

 

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Mike Carruthers:
Hope is that wonderful emotion that sustains us in difficult times but clinging to hope when things are hopeless can be a problem.

 

Karen Krett:
We’re taught in our culture that hopelessness is deplorable we’re not supposed to ever be hopeless. So there’s the cultural force that propels us to keep hoping even when there’s no possibility.
 


Karen Krett

Attitude Of Success

August 16, 2012

 

Interview with Trevor Blake, author of the book Three Simple Steps: A Map to Success in Business and Life

 

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Mike Carruthers:
To be a success requires a positive attitude and the ability to not get stuck in fear or failure.

 

Trevor Blake:
You know I have yet to meet a self-made man or woman who’s a complainer or who’s fixated with daily news they’re people who are outgoing and always looking forward never looking back.


Trevor Blake

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