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December 30, 2011

 

Interview with Noelle Nelson, author of the book Your Man is Wonderful: How to Appreciate Your Partner, Romance Your Differences, and Love the One You've Got

 

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Mike Carruthers:
If you want to keep your relationship happy for a long, long time…


Noelle Nelson:

A lot of it is understanding that you're attracted to someone because they have certain good qualities and that those good qualities are the very things that need to be appreciated and valued as the years go on.
 


Noelle Nelson

Secrets Of Successful Marriages

December 6, 2011

 

Interview with Iris Krasnow, author of the book The Secret Lives Of Wives

 

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Mike Carruthers:
People with great marriages are sometimes thought to be the exception.

 

Iris Krasnow:
Actually it’s not the exception, the divorce rate (which has been hovering for the last 3 decades) has now dipped to 43% more people are trying harder to make their marriages last.
 


Iris Krasnow

Secrets Of Successful Marriages - Part 2

December 7, 2011

 

Interview with Iris Krasnow, author of the book The Secret Lives Of Wives

 

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Mike Carruthers:
What determines how happy your marriage or relationship is? It turns out a big part of the answer is you.

 

Iris Krasnow:
Children leave home, partners work, jobs changes, friends move so really all you have to go the distance in life, in marriage is yourself.
 


Iris Krasnow

Secrets Of Happy Couples

December 2, 2011

 

Interview with Carol Bruess, author of the book What Happy Parents Do

 

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Mike Carruthers:
When a couple has children, things change.

 

Carol Bruess:
Couples often experience (and they're surprised to experience) the depths of dissatisfaction with their marriage when they have young children.
 


Carol Bruess

How Siblings Influence Your Life - Part 2

October 5, 2011

 

Interview with Jeffrey Kluger, author of the book The Sibling Effect: What the Bonds Among Brothers and Sisters Reveal About Us

 

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Mike Carruthers:
Whether you’re the oldest, the youngest, or in the middle birth order does matter.

 

Jeffrey Kluger:
First borns do tend to be more successful, they do tend to make more money, they do frankly have slightly higher IQ’s by about 3 points above the later borns.  
 


Jeffrey Kluger

How Siblings Influence Your Life

October 4, 2011

 

Interview with Jeffrey Kluger, author of the book The Sibling Effect: What the Bonds Among Brothers and Sisters Reveal About Us

 

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Mike Carruthers:
Your relationships with your siblings may be more meaningful than you realize.

 

Jeffrey Kluger:
Your siblings are the ones that are with you, the only relationship you have that will be with you from birth to death, your parents leave too early, your spouse and your kids come along later.
 


Jeffrey Kluger

Improving Any Marriage

September, 26, 2011

 

Interview with Barbara Bartlein, author of the book Marriage Makeover: Simple Ways to Revitalize Your Relationship Without Your Spouse Even Knowing

 

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Mike Carruthers:
The excitement that starts a marriage or long-term relationship often fades.

 

Barbara Bartlein:
More marriages just end with a whimper rather than a bang and part of the reason is people tend to put their marriage on the back burner and not put a lot of effort into it.
 


Barbara Bartlein

Improve Your Marriage Or Relationship Now

September 7, 2011

 

Interview with Dr. Arthur Samuels, author of the book Zen and the Art of Intimacy: The Simple Path of Passion, Fidelity and Love

 

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Mike Carruthers:
If you could do one thing to instantly improve your marriage or relationship, would you do it? Cause there is one thing.

 

Dr. Arthur Samuels:
You have to give up being critical. The way I do it is whenever I feel anything loving towards my wife the way she looks, the way she acts, what she does – I say, “I love you” and I mean it from the heart.
 


Dr. Arthur Samuels

The "Semi-Happy" Marriage

June 27, 2011

 

Interview with Pamela Haag, author of the book Marriage Confidential: The Post-Romantic Age of Workhorse Wives, Royal Children, Undersexed Spouses, and Rebel Couples Who Are Rewriting the Rules

 

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Mike Carruthers:
Something interesting has happened to a lot of marriages today they fallen into the category of the semi-happy marriage.

 

Pamela Haag:
The semi-happy marriages are usually very amiable and high functioning as friendships but in some ways they’ve become too much like a friendship.
 


Pamela Haag

How Couples Fight

April 13, 2011

 

Interview with Sharyn Wolf, author of the book Love Shrinks: A Memoir of a Marriage Counselor's Divorce

 

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Mike Carruthers:
If you’re in a relationship you’re going to fight, so how you fight is going to have a big impact on that relationship. So how do you fight?

 

Sharyn Wolf:
Well you want to fight fair, there’s no name calling. You want to focus on the issue and not get distracted into a kitchen sink fight where every other issue that you’ve ever had together comes up.
 


Sharon Wolf

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