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Dealing With Difficult People

August 18, 2010

 

Interview with Dr. Mark Goulston, author of the book Get Out of Your Own Way at Work...And Help Others Do the Same: Conquer Self-Defeating Behavior on the Job

 

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Mike Carruthers:
Difficult people - you have to deal with them so you might as well get good at it.

 

Dr. Mark Goulston:
 The way difficult people get to you is, often they will charm you and then as you interact with them they kind of frustrate you, then they may anger you.
 


Dr. Mark Goulston

Job Security

April 21, 2010

 

Interview with Paula Caligiuri, author of the book Get a Life, Not a Job: Do What You Love and Let Your Talents Work For You

 

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Mike Carruthers:
Everyone is supposedly more stressed out today than ever. So what is everyone so stressed out about?

 

Paula Caligiuri, PhD:
75% of Americans name work and money as their top 2 stressors.
 


Paula Caligiuri, PhD

Being Happy On The Job

 April 12, 2010
Interview with Jessica Pryce-Jones author of Happiness at Work: Maximizing Your Psychological Capital for Success

 

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Mike Carruthers:
Just how happy and content you are at work is determined by several factors.

 

Jessica Pryce-Jones:
It looks to be about 50% of your happiness comes with who you are. 10-15% comes with the context that you find yourself in – but 35-40% comes from how you manage that context.
 


Jessica Pryce-Jones

Being Happy On The Job Part 2

 April 13, 2010
Interview with Jessica Pryce-Jones author of Happiness at Work: Maximizing Your Psychological Capital for Success

 

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Mike Carruthers:
More and more employers are spending time and effort on making sure their employees are happy.

 

Jessica Pryce-Jones:
The reason that organizations are interested in happiness at work is because people who are happiest at work are doing a day and a quarter extra per week in terms of effort. So you are getting sixty days a year out of your most happy employees.
 


Jessica Pryce-Jones

Why So Many Bosses Are Lousy Leaders

February 19, 1020

 

Interview with Terry R. Bacon, author of the book What People Want: A Manager's Guide to Building Relationships That Work

 

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Mike Carruthers:
A lot of managers are lousy at their job and the process of promoting managers is a big part of the problem.

 

Terry Bacon:
A lot of managers are promoted because they're very good technically at what they do.  And they're so good technically, they're promoted into positions of management, often without having a real aptitude for people and usually without any real good training on how to manage people.
 


Terry R. Bacon

How To Manage Your Boss

November 16, 2009

 

Interview with Katherine Crowley, co-author of the book Working for You Isn't Working for Me: The Ultimate Guide to Managing Your Boss

 

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Mike Carruthers:
Just about everyone can find something wrong with their boss.

 

Katherine Crowley:
It’s not that bosses overall as personalities - as human beings are horrible people. It’s that many bosses have specific traits that drive people crazy.

Katherine Crowley

 

The Magic Of Listening

September 28, 2009
Interview with Mark Goulston author of Just Listen: Discover the Secret to Getting Through to Absolutely Anyone

 

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Mike Carruthers:
Listening may be one of the best and underutilized ways to really connect with someone.

 

Mark Goulston:
I think a key prerequisite though is you actually have to care about other people as opposed to just try to maneuver them to do a deal.


Mark Goulston

 

Why Do You Hate Your Job?

January 13, 2009
Interview with Charlotte Shelton, author of Quantum Leaps: Seven Skills for Workplace ReCreation

 

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Mike Carruthers:
It's no secret that a lot of people are unhappy with their job, however…

 

Charlotte Shelton:
We have 1 in 4 people equating the workplace with a prison and being very frustrated because they can't change the prison that they feel caught in.

 

 

     

 

What Do You Do With Anger? Part 2

September 23, 2009
Interview with John Lee, author of The Anger Solution: The Proven Method for Achieving Calm and Developing Healthy, Long-Lasting Relationships

 

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Mike Carruthers:
Funny thing about anger - people get angry all the time and yet…

 

John Lee:
The words you will very seldom ever hear a lover, a wife, a spouse, a boss or an employee ever say to anybody is, “I’m angry”. 


John Lee

 

What Do You Do With Anger?

September 22, 2009
Interview with John Lee, author of The Anger Solution: The Proven Method for Achieving Calm and Developing Healthy, Long-Lasting Relationships

 

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Mike Carruthers:
Are you good at dealing with anger? It sort of depends on your definition of anger.

 

John Lee:
Because people use the words anger and rage interchangeably as if they meant the same thing.
 


John Lee

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