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Mike
Carruthers:
You
want to go in and ask for that raise or you want to make that
important phone call but you can't quite get up the nerve.
Karen Salmanson:
So the first thing I suggest is that you do some sit-ups
and that is when you really sit up and you take notice of why
you want your goal.
Karen Salmanson,
author of the book The
8 Minute Guts Builder…
So the first
thing I suggest is that you come up with ten reasons why you
really, really want this thing. You link it to your favorite
things, feelings, people or events, and then after you do your
sit-ups you have to do your sit-downs. And that's when you sit
down and you think about what you won't stand for - thinking
about if you don't get your goal, why you'll be really angry.
And know that actually the negative emotions can inspire you
more than positive emotions.
A lot of Karen's
suggestions to help you get the guts to help you go after your
goal sound like physical exercises - another is butt kick.
I ask, "Are
you sitting on a big butt?" And people are, " Oh,
but, I'm too old, but I'm too young, but I'm a woman, but I've
never done this before." Well, you have to kick them out
of the way.
And just how
you think and speak about your goal can build up your guts.
"I'm going
to be a good musician, or I'm going to be the best accountant"
- no, you're going to be a world class accountant; find the
word that psyches you up the most and link it to your goal.
They say the enemy of the great is the good. So instead of just
telling yourself "I'm going to do well at this", you
have to link it up to really, really hyperbolic adjectives so
you get yourself into this pumped-up state.
At somethingyoushouldknow.net
I'm Mike Carruthers and that's Something You Should Know.
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