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February
2, 2006:
Finding Success
Interview
with Susan Ford Collins, author of The
Joy Of Success
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Mike
Carruthers:
Do you have a really good sense of what it is you want?
Susan Ford
Collins:
I don't think we're asked that question often enough as children,
"What do you want?" We're more told what we're to
want, so I think we are really discouraged from dreaming.
Susan Ford Collins,
author of the book The
Joy of Success, studied several highly successful people
to discover what it is that makes them successful.
Most adults,
I find, don't dream, but the successful people I followed were
big dreamers. They believed in their dreams in moments when
they were in doubt as opposed to other people who believed in
their fears and turned back. That was a big distinction between
highly successful people and people who were frustrated.
Susan says it's
a very basic principle of success that you'll never get what
you want if you don't know what you want.
I think asking
yourself what you want for breakfast and what you want going
into a meeting, what you want in your relationships, asking
that basic question over and over allows you to get clear about
what you want in general.
Susan believes
successful people achieve their dreams because they're willing
to do things that other people won't, and that is…
…committing to
the outcome without knowing how. But you're willing to allow
chance and serendipity and happenstance to guide you along the
way because you're so committed to your outcome that you begin
to notice opportunities you normally would miss.
At somethingyoushouldknow.net,
I'm Mike Carruthers and that's "Something You Should Know.
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