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Mike
Carruthers:
Here's a good way to determine what your weaknesses are… Marcus
Buckingham: It's an activity that when you're not doing it, you
don't look forward to it and when you are doing it you can't wait to stop. Well,
you're never going to learn to love that. Marcus
Buckingham, author of the book The
One Thing You Need to Know, says you can only be successful when you do something
you're good at, however… Most
of us believe that success in life comes from fixing our weaknesses, not building
on our strengths. You ask Americans that question and 59% of them say the secret
to success lies in fixing flaws. So part of the problem is ourselves. The other
part of the problem is our bosses. You ask people "When your manager talks
to you about your performance, what do you spend most of your time talking about?"
Only 25% of people say strengths, so both our own mindset and those of our bosses
says that you shouldn't cut out the things that you don't like to do - you should
really work on those things. But
Marcus says just the opposite is true. You should develop your strengths and what
you like and cut out what you don't like. How? The
first thing you could try is if there's some activity that grates on you, stop
doing it - see if anyone cares. I worked with a salesperson once that was fabulous
at building relationships but hated to cold call. Ok, then stop cold calling.
No one cares if you cold call. Instead try and build your business by extending
your existing relationships. I think a second tactic is, find a partner. Find
someone who loves what you hate to do. You look at the most successful people
around and you'll see that they're brilliant at finding just the right partner
at just the right time. You
can link to Marcus' website from
ours: somethingyoushoudlknow.net
I'm Mike Carruthers and that's Something You Should Know. |
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