| October
29, 2008 Using (& Not Using) Digital Communication Interview
with Susan RoAne, author of
Face to Face | Mike
Carruthers: Digital communication - things like email and text
messaging - they're great but there's a problem. Susan
RoAne: The problem is a lot of us are avoiding face-to-face situations
in favor of digital communication. And I'm not saying digital communication is
bad - what I'm saying is we need to reclaim the personal touch. Susan
RoAne, author of the book
Face to Face… Something
as simple as to stop sending sympathy cards through an email! This is the kind
of thing where you send it the old-fashioned way so that someone could read it
a year later and get some solace from it. Picking
up the phone is often faster than sending an email and emails can easily be misinterpreted. And
there isn't a person listening to this interview that hasn't had that happen.
In fact I talked to a friend of mine who's a CEO in Chicago and he told that among
his peers, they've been talking about they're not emailing anymore. Why? It's
admissible in court. Admissible in court is one level, hurting someone's feelings
is another level. That's why that personal touch. People, even on the phone can
hear your tone, they can hear your hesitancy. Text
messaging and emails, says Susan, are not the way to deliver bad news. If
you have something that's a little dicey to say, pick up the phone. Also if everyone
else is texting and has no verbal relationship with someone you'll stand out in
the crowd and be memorable. At
somethingyoushouldknow.net
I'm Mike Carruthers and that's Something You Should Know. |