Have you ever pushed on a door that was supposed to be pulled—or pulled when you should have pushed? It feels embarrassing, but don’t blame yourself. It turns out the problem usually isn’t you. It’s the door. https://uxdesign.cc/intro-to-ux-the-norman-door-61f8120b6086
Everyone has an accent—even if they don’t think they do. The way you speak tells a story about where you’ve been, who influenced you, and sometimes even how other people perceive you before you’ve said more than a few words. Why do accents develop? Why are they so difficult to lose? And do people with accents realize they have one, or do they think everyone else sounds different? Erik Singer, one of Hollywood’s leading dialect coaches, explains the fascinating science, history, and psychology behind the way we speak. He has analyzed accents from around the world for millions of viewers online (https://www.eriksinger.com/) and is author of the forthcoming book The Case of the Disappearing R.
We all replay conversations in our heads. We rethink decisions, relive embarrassing moments, and imagine what we should have said or done differently. It feels productive—as if we’re solving a problem. But more often than not, we’re simply trapped in a mental loop called rumination. Far from helping, rumination can fuel anxiety, depression, stress, and self-doubt while making it harder to move forward. Science journalist Donna Jackson Nakazawa explains why our brains get caught in these loops, why they’re so difficult to break, and what actually works to quiet an overactive mind. She is author of Mind Drama: The Science of Rumination and How to Outwit Your Inner Defeatist (https://amzn.to/4vKWiNs).
You’ve probably heard the advice that couples who want happier relationships should simply have sex more often. It sounds logical—but research suggests the relationship between sex and happiness may work very differently than most people assume. https://www.cmu.edu/news/stories/archives/2015/may/more-sex-does-not-lead-to-happiness.html
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RESOURCES FOR THIS EPISODE:
Source for the story about doors: https://uxdesign.cc/intro-to-ux-the-norman-door-61f8120b6086
Amazon link for Donna Jackson Nakazawa’s book, Mind Drama: https://amzn.to/4eUQmLV
Source for the story about happy relationships: https://www.cmu.edu/news/stories/archives/2015/may/more-sex-does-not-lead-to-happiness.html
